The adoption process varies from state to state, and sadly, some untrustworthy adoption coordinators are out there. Whether you want to place your child for adoption or you hope to adopt, watch out for some red flags.
It’s essential to ask questions such as, “Are you licensed in the state of Texas?”, “Are your services free for birth parents?” and “Can I meet with you personally?”
Here are a few other red flags to be aware of.
Red Flag #1: Are They Ethical?
A reputable adoption agency is fully licensed within the state where it operates. If the agency’s license is not posted on its website, ask to see it or check with your state’s licensing agency. If necessary, consult the Better Business Bureau.
Read clients' reviews and ratings on their social media or business profiles. Ask the agency for referrals of other birth or adoptive parents they’ve worked with. You want your adoption to follow all state regulations without complications, so don’t be afraid to ask for information.
Red Flag #2: How Do They Treat Expectant Parents?
If the agency speaks disrespectfully about the expectant parent or birth mother, do not work with them. Everyone in the adoption process deserves the utmost respect and honor. An agency that deeply cares for the birth mother is an agency that counsels her, thoroughly explains the adoption process, and does not coerce her into placing her child.
Listen to how they refer to a woman. Is she called an expectant mother before the adoption and a birth mother after? It matters. The agency should give the expectant parents or birth parents complete control over selecting the potential adoptive parents and the amount of contact they hope to have with them and their child.
An adoption isn’t a one-day event. Does the agency provide birth parent counseling before, during, and after placement of their child? If you are a woman considering placing your child for adoption, make sure you are the priority at the agency.
Red Flag #3: How Do They Treat Potential Adoptive Parents?
The adoption process is stressful for everyone involved. An agency must treat potential adoptive parents as individuals, not open wallets. The agency should fully reveal the cost of the process without unexpected financial surprises.
Is the agency full-service? A qualified agency provides the necessary services or referrals to complete the adoption process thoroughly. Ask if they assist with the home study, photo book (profile bio), and legal and financial resources.
Ensure agency representatives contact you regularly and are candid about wait times. Counseling and educational services should also be available.
The Benefits of Working with Adoption Angels
If you are looking for an ethical, full-service, licensed child-placing agency in the state of Texas, come to Adoption Angels. We proudly list our
licensing information on our website and encourage you to call the local licensing office to verify our status. We have seven locations throughout Texas to serve you.
At Adoption Angels, we treat everyone in the adoption process with respect and care. When you choose to work with us, you become part of our family. We listen to your story and do our best to provide an unmatched adoption experience.
If you are currently pregnant and want more information about making an adoption plan for your child, please fill out our
confidential online contact form. If you prefer, you can call or text us at (210) 227-2229 to speak directly with an adoption counselor.
If you are a couple hoping to adopt, start by filling out our inquiry form. We will then email you an information packet and instructions for getting started.
Get the care and support you deserve, not just what’s required. Come to Adoption Angels.
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