One of the most meaningful parts of today’s adoption process is that you have a voice in choosing who will raise your child. For many expectant mothers and birth parents, this is the second biggest decision, right after deciding to make an adoption plan. It is a deeply personal choice, and you do not have to make it alone. At Adoption Angels, every hopeful adoptive family is carefully screened before they are ever presented to you. Our goal is to give you confidence, clarity, and peace of mind as you consider what is best for your child’s future. Who Are the Potential Adoptive Families? Families who hope to adopt come from all walks of life. They represent a wide range of backgrounds, cultures, careers, and lifestyles, but they all share one thing in common. They have a deep desire to love and raise a child. Many have experienced infertility and carry the heartbreak that comes with it. Their journey to adoption is filled with hope, commitment, and a genuine readiness to become parents. Who Is Eligible to Adopt Through Adoption Angels? We hold our adoptive families to high standards to ensure every child is placed in a safe, stable, and loving home. To apply, families must generally meet the following: Be between the ages of 25 and 45 Be married for at least three years, with some exceptions Have a documented medical infertility diagnosis We are also committed to inclusive adoption practices and do not accept families who are only open to Caucasian or half Caucasian children. How Are Families Screened? Adoption is a thorough and thoughtful process. Every family completes extensive screening and documentation, including: Criminal check clearances FBI fingerprinting clearances Completed physical examination forms Employment verification Financial statement Most recent Income Tax Return Copies of Birth Certificates Copy of Marriage Certificate Child abuse and neglect clearances Sex offender clearances One photo of the front and back of the home Individual autobiographies Reference letters Proof of insurance (home, health, auto, life, etc.) This process ensures that every family you consider has been carefully evaluated and is fully prepared to provide a safe and nurturing home. How Do I Choose the Right Family? Choosing an adoptive family is about what feels right to you. With the support of your adoption counselor, you will explore your hopes and vision for your child’s future. You might think about questions like these: Do you want your child to grow up with siblings or be the oldest? What type of environment feels right, such as a big city, small town, or rural setting? Are shared values like religion, education, or lifestyle important to you? Do you want a family who shares your interests, such as music, travel, pets, or traditions? As you look through family profiles, remember they are likely feeling just as nervous and hopeful as you are. Their stories, photos, and letters are meant to give you a glimpse into their lives and the love they are ready to give. Keep an open heart. You may find a connection where you least expect it. When It Feels Right, It Is a Match When you choose a family and they feel the same connection, you will have the opportunity to meet or speak with them. Many birth parents find that building a relationship before the baby arrives helps ease anxiety and creates a sense of reassurance. We Are Here for You Every Step of the Way At Adoption Angels, we are honored to walk alongside you during this important journey. Our team is here to support you, answer your questions, and help you find the right family for your child. You can explore waiting families at any time, and when you are ready, reach out to us: Call or text 24 7 at (210) 227 2229 or fill out our online contact form . Reaching out does not mean you are committing to adoption. It simply means you are getting the information and support you deserve.

Women often ask, “What happens after I place my child with their new adoptive family?” More than anyone in the adoption experience, a birth mother needs counseling, support, and an outlet to express her emotions after placement. There is life after adoption. Take a closer look at the many post-placement support services available to you. Did I Make the Right Decision? You decided early on that adoption was the best choice for your unplanned pregnancy. A few months later, you chose the perfect adoptive couple to raise your child. Meeting them confirmed they were the right choice. It was hard to let go of your baby to them after giving birth, but you knew it was best for everyone. Now what? How do you move forward with your life as a birth mother? Feelings of doubt are natural for all birth mothers. As a mother, you instinctively want to protect your child. Hopefully, you received thorough counseling throughout your adoption journey to determine what was best. Lindsay Arielle is a birth mother and blogger for Considering Adoption.com . She has written for years about her journey of healing. Reading her blog is a source of comfort for many birth mothers. Why Do I Feel so Alone? You can feel extremely isolated after placing your child for adoption. Very few people understand your decision. If their opinions aren’t favorable toward adoption, you may feel unable to express your grief and pain openly. They may say, “Well, you made the choice. Now live with it.” You did make a choice, but you don’t have to live alone with your decision. There are many online support groups to walk this journey with you. The following are a few you may want to consider joining: Birth Moms Today Featuring “The Post-Adoption Journey Guide.” This site offers many benefits, such as a workshop, grief recovery support, 24/7 membership to the support group, and unlimited email support. Brave Love This site lists established support groups by state. For instance, several groups in Texas meet either in person or online. You can also view videos of birth mothers who share their individual experiences. Knee to Knee The group offers post-placement support groups, a free self-love journal project, a birth mother registry, and a support curriculum. Concerned United Birth Parents CUB sponsors annual retreats. Their next retreat is October 13 - 15, 2023. In addition, they offer monthly CUB Zoom Support Group meetings. On Your Feet Foundation On Your Feet offers monthly virtual birth parent support groups, a birth mom-to-birth mom mentor program, retreats, and Create!, a Birth Parent’s Arts Grant. Three Strands FB group This FB group is open to birth mothers, adoptees, and adoptive moms. It’s a great place to ask questions and hear stories of the experiences of others. How Can You Help Me? At Adoption Angels, we understand the need for post-placement counseling and support services. We offer free counseling to help you throughout your adoption journey and beyond. Placing your child for adoption can be painful, but you don’t have to walk your post-placement journey alone. Let us help you as you heal. You have so much to offer your child. As Lindsay Arielle writes, “Healing is a journey, not a destination.” There is a brighter future for you ahead. To discuss placing your child for adoption or your need for post-adoption support, please fill out our confidential online contact form or call or text (210) 227-2229. We’re here for you.

Adoption, in and of itself, involves unique conversations with your child. Biological children never ask questions about their “real” parents or why they don’t look like the rest of the family. When you adopt transracially, you have another set of questions that you must tackle. Gone are the days when we can say the world is “colorblind.” To be colorblind means you miss the special qualities of each race. It is up to parents to instill in their children, adopted or not, a strong sense of security and identity. Here are some tips to get the discussion about race and racism started with your adopted child and others. It Is Never Too Early to Begin a Conversation Just as it’s never too early to begin presenting the idea of adoption, talking about a child’s race or ethnicity should also start early. Make sure you understand the differences in the terms you discuss. Race. Although we are all members of the human race, the word takes on a different meaning for us today. Now, race describes physical characteristics, such as skin color, facial features, hair color and texture, or eye color. Ethnicity. Ethnic traits include a person’s culture, language, traditions, and place of origin. Nationality. This term refers to the nation in which a person is a legal citizen. So, whether you are of Asian or Mexican descent but were born in the United States, your nationality is American. Culture. The beliefs, customs, and behaviors of a particular group. Heritage. A person’s heritage is the cultural practices, values, and life experiences that have been passed down through the generations. Ways to Reinforce the Conversation Begin from the moment you are matched with a child to understand the various cultural and ethnic traditions. Add the following practices to your life and routines: Find children’s books about your child’s ethnicity and culture. Instruct family and friends about the words that are acceptable in your family and those that aren’t. Terms like “Oriental,” “colored,” or “mixed-race,” for example, are inappropriate. If possible, live in a diverse community. If that’s not possible, find a mentor or group your child can work with to reinforce their culture and ethnic background. Celebrate their culture’s traditions and holidays. Ensure your child understands all of the terms that others may use to describe them, especially which terms are inappropriate. If your child experiences racism or a negative racial incident, help them understand the emotions behind it and teach them how to combat these behaviors. Set a good example for your child by actively fighting against racism. Reaffirm regularly that adoption allows families to be created in special ways. Not every family member has to look the same. Let Adoption Angels Assist You  The team at Adoption Angels strongly believes in educating everyone in the adoption process. If your adoption is transracial, we will help you find the resources you need. We emphasize the importance of semi-open and open adoptions , allowing you to build a relationship with your child’s biological family. As you interact with them, we encourage you to discuss their specific heritage and cultural traditions. Adoption is a multi-faceted experience. It’s unique for everyone. At Adoption Angels, we become an integral part of your experience, treating you as if you were family. We help you navigate the specific nuances and ensure you have as much information as possible to have a successful parenting journey. If you are interested in adopting through Adoption Angels, please start the process by completing our potential adoptive parent form . We will email you an information packet and provide instructions on how to get started. We look forward to working with you!

Hello & Thank You , First, we want to thank you for taking a look into our lives and reviewing our book. We can’t even begin to understand what you are going through, but we pray that God continues to give you strength and courage through all the emotions you are feeling. We know that you are a selfless woman just by knowing that you are choosing to create an adoption plan for your child. Our names are Jose and Daniella. We met each other in 2014, and we got married in 2016. A year later, we began trying to have a child of our own. After three years of seeing a fertility doctor and seven years of trying different treatments, we were unsuccessful. Jose and I want to expand our family, and we know adoption is the answer to our prayers. We both have siblings we grew up with, and we hope that we are able to add another sibling to expand our love and family in the near future. We want you to know that your child is already loved by so many, including grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and many more family members. We promise to raise your child with unconditional love, provide many life skills, compassion, respect, morals, and provide any education your child dreams of. We also believe in God and would love to raise your child knowing who God is. If you choose us to be part of your adoption plan, we can assure you that we will share your child’s adoption story with them from the very beginning. We will celebrate the love you have for them and honor the decision you made. Thank you once again for this opportunity to get to know us. This process has been one we prayed and cried about, as having a family of our own has been a difficult journey for us both. As you glance through our book, we pray that you see the love we share with each other, our families, our faith, and the joy we have for the future journey we have prayed about. Whichever decision you make, we want you to know that you will forever be in our prayers. Sincerely, Jose & Daniella

Hello & Thank You , We are truly excited to meet you and thank you for taking the time to get to know us. Even though we have not met yet, we are already holding you and your child close in our hearts. We admire your strength and bravery, and we promise to be by your side every step of the way. If you choose us, we will welcome your child into our family with open arms and open hearts, and love and protect them for the rest of our lives. We will dance in the rain wearing yellow rain boots, face challenges together, celebrate joyful moments, and experience all that life has to offer as a family.  We are Iván, Angel, and our sweet daughter, Milana, who cannot wait to become a big sister! Our home is full of energy, love, and laughter, along with our three little dogs who keep us smiling. Our family is close-knit, supportive, and full of joy. Our path to having another child has been challenging. After trying for years to grow our family, we realized adoption was the right path for us. As we began the adoption process, we received the unexpected but joyful news that we are pregnant. While this was a surprise, it has only deepened our excitement about growing our family through both birth and adoption. We have always envisioned a home filled with love, and we believe having children close in age will create a unique and beautiful bond between siblings. One full of friendship, support, and shared experiences. No matter how a child comes into our family, we will love them with every fiber of our being. Our commitment to adoption remains strong, and we are excited to welcome more children into a home where they will be deeply cherished. Our daughter is busy sorting through all the stuffed animals and toys that she can’t wait to share! She is beyond excited to be a big sister, and we are thrilled to welcome new siblings into our home! We live life with joy—dancing, singing, and laughing often—while also valuing the importance of family, stability, and togetherness. Everything we do is as a team, with grandparents who love being part of our lives and adventures. Thank you for taking the time to get to know us. We hold deep respect and gratitude for you as you consider this decision. We would be honored to welcome your child into our family and share a lifetime of love. With love, Iván & Angel